On the back end: I don't know, i've never paid attention, I can't think of where any would be based on where they are on the front end suspension.
Size: if you get an automotive gun it should be universal (at least as universal as anything is in the automotive world

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You'll find one on your drag link and on the bottom of your steering knuckles, just look where things that move are mated to other things and there will either be a zerk or there wont be.
You can probably overgrease, if its a sealed deal I just give it a pump or two, if its an open deal I'll pump until the old grease is purged. I dunno if that's the correct way or not, its just they way I've been shown with old farm equipment, so you'll probably want to get a second opinion on that one.