In that case, and this is all just personal preference, I would get some extended fender flares (I went with 6"), a new bumper, some rock sliders, skid plates, diff guards, and a 3" lift. For starts. If its going to be a daily driver, as well as your weekend warrior, I think its a good idea to make sure to guard and protect all the things that matter so you don't get stranded without a vehicle during the week. Im using mine for the same things you are, granted I have an extra vehicle just in case, and those are the things that I have started with (still need the bumper). Eventually,I will get lockers, but im still researching those. I've only had my jeep for about a month, so im definitely not an expert yet, but I have been looking at them for a long time. Im sure there's a lot of other guys on here that have other ideas, but these are the things that I have heard about and researched the most. Its a good start anyway. The best thing you can do (I was given this advice, and found it to be extremely accurate) is take out your jeep on some minor trails, get used to it, and see what she can handle. As you go along, you will start to see what you need and want, and your wishlist will begin. I hope this helps. Good luck. And keep everyone posted. They really like it when you do that.