the marines wouldn;t take you with kids?  man,  the army took me the second time i joined with two kids.
everyone thinks they have not done anything significant,  in their own  mind but when other people hear what you have done,  its significant to  them because some people don;t get to do normal things like live in one  place and have a house and stuff like that.  i still don;t own a house.   wish i did but i have never been able to to.  now i am finally trying  to but waiting for paperwork.
you know whats crazy?  i have a guy who works in my shop that builds  transmissions.  he is a quiet guy who never really says a lot.  older  fella,  could retire if he wanted.  he has two purple hearts!!!  i am  amazed at hte people i work with and what they have done.  i wouldn't  have known that because he doesn;t tell people,  the lady he works with  told me when we were talking about the military because she is a vet  too.  two purple hearts,  that is not someone most people will ever know  or have the luck to meet.
i have some leadership lessons pinned up on my desk,  on the over head  doors because i thought they were really good the first time i read  them.  i read them over every once in a while to remind me of why i am  here.
number 4 says:
take time to know your people.  life in the military is hectic, but  thats no excuse for not knowing the people you work for and with.  who  are the heros that walk in your midst?
i read about a guy who worked at annapolis or one of hte other military  schools as a janitor.  everyone always said hi but not much more then  that because they thought they were above him since they were there for  officer training.  but they didn;t know this guy won the medal of honor  because no one took the time to get to know him.  that is sad.  
like that guy who used to run the auction house here in town,  robert  edlin.  i told ya'll about him already but in case some new people are  here,  here is the wikipedia on him.
On D-Day,  June 6, 1944, Lieutenant Edlin helped to lead Company A onto Omaha  Beach, receiving debilitating wounds in both legs; evacuated to England  the following day, he rejoined his platoon in France on July 15, 1944.
  During the late summer of 1944, the 2nd Ranger Battalion  was assigned to support the American advance in Britanny; on September  9, preceding a dawn attack on the antiaircraft Graf Spee, or Lochrist,  battery near the French city of Brest, Lieutenant Edlin was ordered to  lead a four-man reconnaissance patrol to spot enemy pillboxes and  snipers and chart a way through the minefield surrounding the garrison,  the capture of which was critical in the effort to retake the port  city.
  The patrol navigated a large minefield and encountered a German  pillbox, where Lieutenant Edlin captured the officer in charge;  Lieutenant Edlin then forced the officer to escort him and his  interpreter to the commanding officer of the Graf Spee battery. On  entering the commander's office, Lieutenant Edlin took a grenade, pulled  the pin, and held the grenade to the commander's stomach, forcing him  to surrender the fort, along with four 280-mm guns, supporting  small-arms positions, pillboxes, and approximately 800 enemy soldiers.
  Recommended by Lieutenant Colonel James Earl Rudder, commander of the 2nd Ranger Battalion,  to receive the Medal of Honor, Lieutenant Edlin refused to accept the  medal in order to avoid being reassigned to a unit within the  continental United States.
  Lieutenant Edlin was awarded the Distinguished Service Cross  for his extraordinary heroism in battle, and in 1995 he was inducted  into the Ranger Hall of Fame; a book recounting his remarkable military  service was published in 2002.
 
 little old guy running an auction house the wife and i would go to on friday nights.  i would've never known he was a war hero  because he never mentioned it.  when his book came out,  thats how i  found out.  it was for sale in the auction house and i picked it up.   wow,  amazing the people we know but never really know.  and i was at  the ranger hall of fame opening in 1995 at fort benning,  i was at  airborne school when it opened.  i saw him then too and never even knew  it till i read the book.
 
 
 don;t worry about if you think your life has not produced anything  amazing,  it will and probably already has,  but you don't know because  it happens to you all the time.